Love It Free
Love It Free
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    • Love It Free
    • Guided Practice
    • Workshops & Retreats
    • Organizational Workshops
    • About
  • Love It Free
  • Guided Practice
  • Workshops & Retreats
  • Organizational Workshops
  • About

A different kind of guide

Valerie Patterson, Founder

I don’t offer answers, diagnoses, or direction.


I hold a space where you can learn how to access your own truth.


This work is not about following someone else’s path.
It’s about building trust in your own.

Why Love It Free Exists

Love It Free exists to support the evolution of human awareness and personal agency during times of individual and collective transformation.


As technology, institutions, and society continue to evolve, many people find themselves searching for meaning, connection, authenticity, and a deeper understanding of who they are.


Love It Free is grounded in the belief that self-awareness, discernment, emotional intelligence, authenticity, and conscious participation are not leadership luxuries. They are essential human capacities that every person has the ability to cultivate.


By supporting individual growth, we contribute to the larger process of collective evolution.

About Love It Free

Love It Free is a living philosophy and human development platform dedicated to expanding awareness, cultivating personal agency, and supporting conscious participation in the human experience.


Love It Free helps people navigate the space "between earth and ether"—grounding inner awareness into real choices, relationships, and the systems within our lives.


Through guided practice, educational programs, workshops, publications, and organizational learning experiences, Love It Free helps individuals and organizations navigate change with greater wisdom, authenticity, and purpose.


At its heart, Love It Free is an invitation to explore what it means to live with greater awareness, intention, and connection.

What does “between earth and ether” mean?

This is the space where you are 

grounded in daily life and connected to inner awareness.

It is not about leaving reality behind. 

It is about bringing insight into how you live, relate, and choose every day.

How Love It Free came into being

My path into this work did not begin with a clear destination.

Like many people, I was trying to make sense of my experiences—internally and externally. I was searching for clarity, understanding, and a way of moving through life that felt aligned with something deeper.


What began as a personal meditation practice gradually opened a new way of relating to myself and the world around me. Through stillness, reflection, and inner exploration, I began to recognize patterns, perspectives, and possibilities that had previously remained hidden from view.


Over time, this journey led me into yoga, social-emotional learning, and shamanic practice, where I learned to listen more deeply, cultivate discernment, and develop trust in what emerged through direct experience.


What began as a personal exploration eventually evolved into something larger. The insights, messages, and understandings that emerged through this process revealed recurring themes of awareness, personal agency, authenticity, healing, and humanity's capacity for growth.


Love It Free emerged from that journey, along with a growing body of messages, educational materials, reflective practices, and learning experiences that continue to evolve as the foundation of the work.


Today, Love It Free serves as a living philosophy and human development platform dedicated to helping individuals and organizations cultivate greater awareness, personal agency, and conscious participation in life.

My role in this work

Background & Experience

Background & Experience

I do not interpret your experience or tell you what it means.


I support you in learning how to access and navigate your inner landscape.


This is not about dependence.


It is about cultivating your inner knowing without external distraction.


This work is ultimately about developing self-trust, personal agency, and the confidence to navigate your own life with greater awareness and authenticity.

Background & Experience

Background & Experience

Background & Experience

  • Master's Degrees in Communication and Education
  • Curriculum Development and Educational Design
  • Community Leadership Experience
  • Yoga Teacher Training
  • Social Emotional Learning Facilitation Training
  • Shamanic Practitioner Training


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Contact: valpat4love@gmail.com

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